DISCOVER ONCE HAD A FETISH
Welcome to Once Had A Fetish, a blog featuring my personal fetishes, musings, interests and turn-ons, especially as they relate to Ms. Blue Eyes.


Going Through Life's Changes Together
I got the title for this post from the message that you left me this evening. In it, you thank me for making your day better and...

Island In The Sun
I was listening to a random playlist while pulling weeds in my garden tonight and Weezer's 'Island In The Sun' came on. I was in college...

A Poem For May (Part 2)
My pretty girl has such an active and creative brain. She finished part two of her poem yesterday, just one day after writing the first...

A Poem For May (Part 1)
I spent the last four days in Chicago with my pretty, pretty girl. It was the best vacation ever and I'm still processing it. At this...

20 Songs
I was listening to the original 13-song mixed CD that I made for you during our first few weeks together and it gave me an idea to make a...

Songs That Remind Me Of You: All I Want Is You
If I was a flower growing wild and free All I'd want is you to be my sweet honey bee And if I was a tree growing tall and green All I'd...

The Book Of Love
The book of love is long and boring No one can lift the damn thing It's full of charts and facts, and figures And instructions for...

Music For A Long Drive
This past Saturday, I left the house at 6:30, heading to Camarillo for an airshow. It is a fun, two-hour drive that goes from crowded...

What Slumbers: A Poem That She Wrote On A Plane
It was November 2022, and my pretty girl had just returned home from our time in California. It was a great vacation that we spent in and...

On The Occasion Of Our 10th Anniversary
In accepting this award for 10 years of longevity in this relationship, I'd like to say a few words. First and foremost, I'd like to...

Travel Pillow
You left your travel pillow in my car when you were here last month. I love that your pretty head rested on it as you flew to me. I'll...

Great Provider!!
Ms. Blue Eyes sent me that text in the middle of March. For many years now, I've always thought that a man's primary reason for existing...

Tolstoy Quote
I hate to admit that I don't know a damn thing about Tolstoy. I recall that as a kid, every time I heard his name, I laughed at how much...










