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Tall, Dark, Dominant Male Looking

  • Writer: I Am Not
    I Am Not
  • Feb 17, 2021
  • 5 min read

Thank you for stopping by my profile. My subject line must have interested you. I must warn you that it might not be worth your time to read any further, as I am not for everyone. Not that I’m so goddamn special mind you, but I am quite selective. I rarely talk about myself, but any potential relationship requires just that, so I'll get the routine things out of the way first: I am heterosexual, in my late 40s, am 6'2 with long legs, wide shoulders and big...feet. I have a bachelor's of science and am professionally employed as a financier. I am the son of a military man and I am a former Marine officer. I am a southern gentleman with a deep, commanding voice. I am a dominant male, as mentioned in my profile. Specifically, I am a dominant, black male. Even more so, I am a dominant, black, confident male with a desire to introduce a very rare woman to an evening of being dominated.


I say rare because I am only interested in tall, attractive, naturally-born blondes, no younger than 35. They should also have pretty feet and manicured toes. There is no need to be an experienced submissive (in fact, I prefer curious but serious first-timers), but you must have a desire to be submissive to a stern, dominant man. You should also be interesting to me. Tough one, I know, but I know it when I see it.


Should you be chosen, your role in this will be as a submissive object for me to enjoy for an evening and perhaps for several evenings. You will present yourself to me so that I may inspect you visually and physically. You will be spanked, you will be bound and you will be made to display yourself in various positions of my choosing. You will also perform various tasks for me (you don’t expect me to pour my own wine, do you?) so that I may further enjoy your movement and submissiveness. In short, you will do as I say; you will put all of your trust in me and I will take you to the moon and back, one command at a time. If you are interested, respond with some information about yourself and tell me what has interested you thus far. You may address me as “sir.”


I read your profile with great interest.

It was wonderful to read that you are tall, commanding (your history of military service immediately set off bells in my head of the discipline and demands that you might ask of your chosen one), and that you are so discerning. Based off of your criteria, It sounds as though you are looking for that elusive unicorn within the pages of this website, lol. But, I dare say, as unlikely as it may seem given my current place in life...I just may possess that mythical single horn. Allow me to explain. I am currently in a very friendly living relationship with my ex-husband. We share an abode and the comfortable trappings of a comfortable life. I have no stress. I am free to pursue art (a recent passion), cooking (another recent passion), and have much time to pursue any other activity that interests me. However, there is one catch to this day in and day out lovely existence....the relationship is 100% platonic. I get no sex, no touching, no one to comment on my looks (which are pretty good, btw ;-) The reason that I am on this site is because I am looking for an intense sexual AND sensual experience. With no stings attached. The reason that I say I may be a unicorn is that I have much experience as a sexual submissive. Beginning in my teens, I was groomed by a powerful political figure in Chicago to meet his needs....both sexual and his need to shape or mold a female into something better than that which he started. My first forays into becoming a sexual being involved quite a bit of what you describe in your profile. Since that time, I have also had two other long-term BDSM relationships. In other words, I know the ropes (and I like them...pun intended!) I’m also vetted from a psychological standpoint. I have no interest in harming my day to day life...and because of my background, I have almost no chance of being harmed by anything you may choose to do to me. And you can do it all. I have only one hard stop, and that is scat. Everything else is up for discussion. I sincerely hope that you respond to this email. After reading your post, I have been daydreaming of a tall black man using me. And then using me again. I crave the abandon that comes with a night of complete submission. Until then, All the best to you. Me PS...I’m 6 feet tall, have lovely feet and a very pretty face capped off with....you guessed it...blonde hair.

I am pleased that you responded so soon. I would like to find a unicorn anywhere, but it seems best to look where the unicorns are most likely to reveal themselves, which is this grimy little website full of grimy little freaks and gay men looking to hook up with men who are straight and have no interest in not being straight. I digress. Alas, it seems I may have indeed found a unicorn, though, and I think we should continue our discussion.


Your current living arrangement sounds pleasant, minus the lack of touch and affection. Still, you seem to know that you are lucky to have him. Given that, I can see why you’d seek out a dom and I am sure that I could provide that intense experience that you seek. I like that you are experienced, as it means that we can cut through the basics of this lifestyle and learn more of each other. I’m curious to know of any sexual experiences that you’ve had with black males and where that interest comes from. Was the Chicago gentleman black? My entire knowledge of Chicago comes from watching the TV show Good Times as a kid, so until recently I’d assumed that the city’s entire white population was no more than 13. Perhaps I was wrong.


I have been with a number of women over the years and never restricted myself to one race, though, as I said previously, tall, naturally-blonde women are especially interesting to me. I think part of it is that there is no greater contrast on earth than black skin against white skin. This difference extends to thought processes as well. I have found that my view of the world is often 180 degrees apart from that of the typical blonde girl. After an evening spent doing everything that I've told them, we tend to be much more aligned in our thinking, at least as it regards deeper matters of sensuality and their (new) purpose in life. I call it “the expansion of minds through the spreading of legs...and whatnot.”


I mentioned protocol earlier and mine is simple. First, do not make eye contact with me. When I grab your face and look at you, it is so that I can see you, not vice versa. During any idle time or during any time in which I have not positioned you, you should assume either the “Good Dog” or “Bad Bitch” pose as they will provide my eyes and hands with excellent access to your body. The rest is par for the course and since you are experienced, you know it well: you will ask permission before you do anything I have not commanded you to do; when standing up, you will stand up straight; when presenting me with anything, you will use both hands; your head must never be higher than mind, etc. Oh, and you will be collared the entire time.


Your height, pretty feet and pretty face, capped with your experiences has my interest piqued. If, after reading this, you are still craving to be thoroughly used, let me know and we will discuss how to get you there.


Masterfully,


Sir


Sir

 
 
 

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